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ksis jhig meñKSu;a iu`. ,sx.sl wjYH;d we;sùu iajdNdúlhs' tfyu fkdfjkjdkï ta fydafudak l%shdldÍ;ajfha hïlsis wjq,la mej;sh hq;=hs' kuq;a fï ksis jhi fudllao lshk tl .ek fndfyda fofkl=g wjfndaOhla ;sfnkjdo hkak .eg¿jla' fïl ksis jhig t<öug m%:u ,sx.sl l%shd j, fh§u jf.au ,sx.sl Ôúf;a weröu mud lsÍu úYd, m%Yak m%udKhla we;sùug u`.mdokjd' wo wms uq,slj l;d lrkak W;aiy lrkafka .eí .ekSul§ we;súh yels .eg¿ ms<sn|j'

fndfyda fofkla úúO fya;= ksid m<uq orejd ms<sn| wjOdkh yq`.la l,amyq lrkjd " iuyrekag ´k Wfka f,dl= f.hla iïmq¾Kfhka yodf.k m<uq orejd ìys lrkak " iuyrekag Wmdêh wjika lrf.k ta .ek ys;kak Wkd " ta w;f¾ iuyre marriage life tl enjoy lrkak ´k lshñka fï m<uq ore Wm; m%udo l<d '

wo jk úg fï wh Ôúf;a w;sYHh ixfõ§ ÿlla ú¢ñka Ôj;a fjkjd " fya;=j iuyrekag orefjla ms<sis| .kafka keye ".;a;;a udi lsysmhlska bfíu .íidfj,d ke;sfj,d hkjd" b;ska f,dafla mqrdu ;sfhk foajd, " fldú,a j, kj;skjd " lsysm fofkla ú;rhs ksis ffjoH m%;sldr i|yd fhduq fj,d bkafk;a "

iuyrekag úúO .eg¿ iys; orejka bkakj " b;ska Tjqka ;ukaf.a uq¿ Ôú; ld<hu ta .ek ;eú;eù bkakjd " iuyrekaf.a orejg udi folhs ;d;a;g jhi wjqreÿ y;,sia y;hs " álla ys;kak fï orej mdi,a hk ldf,g álla Wia uy;a fjk ldf,g ;d;a;f.a wdorh /ljrKh ´ku lrk ldf<g ta ;d;a;g ta /ljrKh fokakg ;rï YÍr Yla;shla yelshdjla ;sfhao lsh, ielhs " b;ska wms oek .kaku ´k fohla ;u m<uq orejd ìys lrkakg ´k jhi " úfYaIfhkau ujf.a jhi

Ôj úoHd;aulj .;a;u ldka;djl ;u jhi wjqreÿ 13)15 jf.a iSudjlÈ ,sx.sl jYfhka mßk; ùu isÿ fjkjd " ta lshkafka oeka wehg mq¿jka meáfhla yokak wjYH ffi, foflkasex1 ^YqldKq iy  äïn& tlla m%Odkh lrkak " ;j úÈhlska lsõfjd;a oeka fï oeßúhf.a .¾NdIh ;=,g Yql%dKq .sfhd;a wehg ujla ùfï yelshdj ;sfhkjd ' yenehs ;ju weh iuia: jYfhka ldhslj " udkislj " iudchShj orefjla ,nkakg ;rï mßK; fj,d keye

b;ska fï jhfia orefjlag orefjla ,eîu hï wk;=rla iys; isÿùula " fï ish¿ ;;a;j j,ska hï mßK; njla ,nkakg wvqu ;rfï wjqreÿ 18la j;a fjklï bkak fjkjd' ta ksid ;uhs wfma rfÜ wjqreÿ 18g wvq ldka;djlg újdy ùug wjir ke;af;' kuq;a fjk;a idOl u`. yeßfhd;a " jhi 20;uhs fyd|u lsh,;a lshkak mq¿jka " t;a m%dfhda.slj fuh " fuu iSudfjka álla wE;g hkjd

úfYaIfhkau lshkakg ´k foa orefjla ,nkakg fyd| ldhsl " udkisl iy iudchS msßmqka njla wjYHuhs " wd¾:slh;a jeo.;a " ta;a m<uq wjia:d ;=k bka m%uqL;ajhla .kakjd " fi!LHdkql+,j 'ta fufyuhs uq,skau orefjla r|jd .ekSu fmdaIKh iy wdrlaIdj i|yd m%udKj;a ksfrda.S fi!LH ;;a;ajhla ujg ´kE'

tfia fkdùu;a wkd.; orejdg lrkafka widOdrKhla' wfkl fï w¿;a ujg " iudcfha ms<s.ekSula "jf.au iudch ms<sn| " iudchSh isÿùï " mjq, ;=, /¢h hq;= wdldrh " wUq)ieñ iïnkaOh mj;ajd.ekSu jf.a iudchSh oekqula ms<s.ekSula w;HjYHhs' ys;kak jhi wjqreÿ 14l ú;r fl,af,la wïu flfkla fj,d fmdä meáfhlaj jvd f.k bkakj oelafld;a Tng fudlo ysf;kafka' iuyr meálalshka ;ukaf.a orej yryg jvd .kakj;a neye " Wi keye " meáhj yqr;,a lrkakj;a f;afrkafka ke;s ;rï'

we;a;gu orefjla ìys lrkak fyd|u jhi fudllao lsh, weyejqfjd;a " fïkak fïl ;uhs jhi lsh, yß w.hla lshkak wudrehs " talg fya;=j fï .eg¿j uq¿ f,dfõu ;sfhk m%Yakhla' b;ska mdßißl ;;a;aj " úúO iudc iy ixialD;Suh isß;a úß;a" iudchSh iy wd¾:sl jYfhka hï ia:djr;ajhla ,nkakg .; jk ld<h jf.a idOl ksid fjkiajk iq¿hs ' kuq;a fmdÿfõ .;a;u tajf.au wr uq,sl idOl ish,af,a mßK;sh;a ie,l+ju ldk;djlf.a jhi wjreÿ 20)26 w;f¾ m<uq ore ms<sis| .ekSu jvd;a iqÿiqhs lshk u;h ;uhs jvd;a m%p,s; iy úoHd;aul ms<s.ekSu'

sex ta lshkafka fï jhia iSudj we;=f,È orefjla ìys lrk tl jvd;a wdrlaIdldÍh lshk tl muKhs' tajf.au ore ms<sis`o .ekSula i|yd iqÿiqu YdÍrl mßirh;a fï ld< iSudj ;=<uhs ;sfhkafka' ìh ùug wjYH kE' fuhska woyia fjkafk kE fka 27ka miafia n¢kak tmd orejka ìys lrkak tmd lsh,' Tfí jhi ñka tyd kï újdy jqkdg orejka ìyslrdg m%Yakhla keye' ta;a m%udo fjkak m%udo fjkak orefjla ms<sis`o .ekSfï yelshdj wvq fjk nj u;l ;nd.kak'

ldka;djlf.a Wmf;a b|<u ;sfhk úfYaIs; mgl j¾.hlska ;uhs fï äïn ffi, ksmofjkafka' b;ska mrK fjkak mrK fjkak fï úfYaIs; mglfha l%shdldÍ;ajh wvqfjkjd' ta jf.au tu ffi, j, úúO úlD;s;d we;s fjkak mq¿jka ^wfma mßirfha ta jf.a úlD;s;d we;s lrkak mq¿jka idOl fndfydauhs& tfyu jqfkd;a meáfhla k;d .kakg ´k m%Odk ffi,hla jk äïn ffi, ksmoùu wvqfjkak yß ksmofjk äïn ffi, j, yelshdj wvqfjkak yß tfyu ke;akï cdk úlD;s jf.a ;;a;aj iys; äïn ffi,hla ksmofjkak;a mq¿jka' tfyu jqfkd;a iqkaor ksfrda.S orefjla .ek Tfí isyskh lÿ¿ uqiq isyskhla jkakg;a mq¿jka'

2009 È C.D.C.^Center for disease control and Prevention& wdh;kh ksl=;a l< m¾fhaIK jd¾;dfõ yeáhg tla oyia kuish ye;a; .kka j,È jhi 21È m<uq jrg uõmoúh ,eîfï by< ;;a;ajhla ;snqK;a 2006 ú;r fj;aÈ wms uq,ska lS fya;= ksidfjka th wjqreÿ 26 muK olajd by< f.dia we;s nj y÷kdf.k ;sfhkjd ' yenehs m¾fhaIKh isÿfjkafka tx.,ka;fha' flfiafj;;a tu ;;a;ajh wfma rfg;a oeka áflka ál olskakg mq¿jka'

wo tys m%Odk;u fya;= idOlh fjkafka wd¾:slh iy iudc ;;a;ajh jf.a lreKq " kuq;a fï ms<sn| m¾fhaIK lrk Tysfhda úYaj úoHd,fha frdaka Ôla,a lshk ffjoH úfYaI{hdjrhdf.a ^Ron Jaekle" MD" a professor of clinical obstetrics and gynecology at the University of Cincinnati College of Medicine" in Ohio'& woyig wkqj ldka;djlg ;u m<uq ore ms<sis| .ekSu i|yd fyd|u ld<h wjqreÿ 25)30 w;frÈhs'

Bg m%udoùu u.ska úlD;s;d ^vjqkaia iy,laIKh jeks Downs sysndrom & we;s ùfï wjodkï jeä jk njh Tyq m%ldY lrkafka " kshñ; jhia iSudfõÈ ore ms<sis| .ekSula jqk;a fujeks widudkH ;;a;aj we;s jkakg mq¿jka' úhm;aj ms<sis| .ekSula isÿùfïÈ jkafka tu wk;=r we;s ùfï wjia:dj jeä úula '

fï fudk fudk l;d lsõj;a jhi wjqreÿ 35g jvd úhm;aj orefjla ms<sis¢ .ekSu ujg fukau orejdg;a hï ;rul .eg¿ldÍnjhs ffjoH u;h' fudlo fï jk úg uj;a úúO frda. " WodyrKhla úÈhg Èhjeähdj " wêreêr mSvkh jeks frda.;a .¾NdIh wdY%s; Endometriosis jeks frda. ;;a;aj j,g;a ,la fj,dfjkak mq¿jka ' ta jf.au tu .¾NkS;ajh iajNdúlju ke;sùhdug we;s wjia:dj;a by<hs' ta ksid lshkakgu ´k fohla ;sfhkjd' ta ;uhs fuu iSudfjÈ ore ms<sis| .ekSula isÿ jqjfyd;a ksis ffjoH Wmfoia uq, isgu wkq.ukh l< hq;= nj " jhi y;,sia .Kka jqfkd;a fï wk;=r ;j;a by< hkakg bv ;sfhkjd '

fï jk úg;a Tfí jhi ;sia .kKla kï " Tn újdyl kï " wfka ;j;a m%udo lrkak tmd " Tfí mjqf,a ffjoHjrhdf.ka Tfí fi!LHh ;;a;ajh .ek;a úui,d " m%udo lrkafka ke;sj ore meáfhla yod .kak W;aidy .kak " tajf.au ms<sis¢ .ekSula jqfkd;a fjk whg jvd mßiaiï fjkak " ta .ek Tfí ffjoHjrhdf.kau Wmfoia f;dr;=re ,nd .kak'

fï ,smsfha yq`.la ;eka j, Tn lsh, wduka;%Kh lf<a újdyl ldka;d idudðldjkag' fï lreKq msßñ md¾Yjhg;a wod<hs' fudlo jhig hklïu Tfí Y%l%dKq ksmojqk;a ^ldka;djkag tu äïn ksmofjkafka wjqreÿ 46)48 ú;r fjklï ú;rhs& jhig .sh Yql%dKq j, msyskSfï yelshdj wvqjk nj fidhdf.k ;sfhkjd' Tn okakjo Thdf.a Yql%dKq f,dl= ;r,hla §, " ia;%S m%ckl moaO;sh we;=f,a ÿr .ukla mSk,d .syska ;uhs äïn ffi,h;a tlal tl;= fj,d ;uhs meáfhla yokak mgka .kafka' b;ska mSkkak neß Wfkd;a @ thd tklï n,d b`o,d ojia follg ú;r miafia ueß, hkak ;uhs wr äïn ffi,hg fjkafka' m%;sMf,a orefjla ,eîfï wjia:dj ;j;a ÿria fjk tlhs'




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