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,sx.sl tlaùug we;s ìh jeðksiauia ^Vaginismus& frda.hg m%Odk f,i n,mdkjd ldka;djka w;r nyq,ju olakg ,efnk ,sx.sl .eg¨‍j jkafka fõokdldÍ ixi¾.hhs'

fuh W.;a kQ.;a fomsßiu uy;a fia mSvdjg m;alrjk ;;a;ajhla njg m;aùu ksidu;a wmfj; ,enqKq .eg¨‍ w;ßka fndfyduhla fï yd iïnkaOlï mj;ajk ksid;a fujr jeðksiauia frda.h fyj;a ixi¾. NS;sldj ms<sn|j idlÉPd lrkakg wm ;SrKh l<d' jeðksiauia frda.S ;;a;ajh yd Bg ms<shï iïnkaOfhka m%cd úfYaI{ ffjoH wdßhfiak hQ .uf.a uy;d woyia oelajQfha fufiahs'

fï frda.S ;;a;ajfhka fmf<k ldka;djka w;r .eñ ldka;djka fukau ffjoHjßhka" fyÈhka" mjq,a fi!LH fiaúldjka" .=rejßhka fukau rcfha yd fm!oa.,sl wxYfha by< ks,;, orK who fjkjd' fï wkqj fmkS hkafka jeðksiauia fyj;a fhdaks m%foaYh ;Èka ixfldapkh ùfï frda.S ;;a;ajhg kQ.;alu fyda fkdoekqj;alu n, fkdmdk njhs'

fuys§ m%Odk jYfhka isÿ jkafka ;u ,sx.sl iylre iuÕ ,sx.slj tlaùfï wdYdj we;;a fhdaks ixi¾.h wdrïNfha§u we;sjk fõokdj ksid ,sx.sl wdYdj iy ,sx.sl yeÕSï myj f.dia is;a ;ejq,g m;aùuhs'
fhdaks m%foaYfha we;s fmaYSka ;Èka ixfldapkh ùu fyj;a jeðksiauia ^Vaginismus & fyj;a ixi¾. NS;sldj i|yd fya;= lSmhla n,mdkjd'

msßñhl= iuÕ ,sx.slj yeisÍu hkq

* wiNH yd jerÈ iy.; fohla f,i is;k udkisl;ajhlska miqùu'
* l=vd ld,fha§ wm%ikak ,sx.sl wmpdrKhlg fyda ¥IKhlg ,laùu'
* .¾N ùu ms<sn| wêl ìhlska miqùu
* m%:u ,sx.sl tlaùfï§ wêl fõokdjla iy wêl reêr jykhla we;s fj;ehs hk wksh; ìh'
* ;u újdyhg wlue;s fyda B¾IHd lrk wfhla" ,sx.sl ixi¾.h wjysr lsÍu i|yd fldäúk lsÍu uÕska  l, nkaOkhla lr we;ehs hk úYajdih'fuys§ fmkS hk m%Odk lreKla jkafka udkisl ;;a;ajhka fï i|yd n,mdk njhs'

jeðkaiauia frda.hg m%;sldr ,nd§fï§ WmfoaYkh" ufkdauh m%;sldr fukau ksjerÈ bßhõj" ksjerÈ mßirh iy ,siaik fc,a j¾. Ndú;hg Wmfoia §uo ffjoHjreka úiska isÿ lrkjd'

flfia fj;;a jeðksiauia frda.fha uQ,sl wjia:dfõ§u ffjoHjrhl= ,jd ksis m%;sldr ,nd .ekSfuka ishhg iShl m%;sM, ,nd.; yelshs' WmfoaYkh ;=<ska frda.S ;;a;ajh myj fkdhkafka kï fhdaks wd;;sh ÿr,Sfï jHdhdu i|yd ldka;dj fhduq l< hq;= fjkjd' fhdaks wd;;sh ÿr,Sfï jHdhduhg yqre lsÍu uÕska fhdaks ud¾.fha fõokdj myj hdu isÿ fjkjd' fuh m<uqj ;uka ;kshu;a bkamiq ;u iylre iuÕ;a isÿl< hq;= fjkjd'

wE; w;S;fha isg mej; tk l,j nkaOkh ksid fndfydafofkl= mSvd úÈk ksid tys ÿ¾u;o wm neyer l< hq;= fjkjd' jeðksiauia frda.fha§ fhdaks ud¾.h wjg fmaYSka fukau hánfâ iy l,jd m%foaYfha fmaYSkao ;Èka ixfldapkh ùu ksid jeðksiauia frda.hg w;S;fha§ l,jd nkaOkh hehs lshkq ,enqjd'

,sx.sl l%shdj,sh id¾:l f,i isÿùu je<elaùu i|yd ukd,sh ms<sn| n,dfmdfrd;a;=fjka isg" th bIaG fkdjQ l< oafõIhg m;a ÿIaGhd úiska lmk ,o fldäúkhla ksid l,jd nkaOkh isÿ jQ hehs úYajdi lsßu ksid ore iïm;la ,nd .ekSug mjd fkdyels jQ ldka;djka ug yuq ù ;sfnkjd' fujeks frda.Skag m%;sldr ,nd§fï§ frda.shd iuÕ mq¿,a idlÉPdjla we;slr .; hq;=hs'

fï i|yd n,mE ish¨‍u ldrKd ffjoHjrhd úiska oek .ekSfuka miq wehf.a uki iqjm;a lsÍu m<uqj l< hq;= fjkjd' bkamiq wehg ,sx.sl l%shdj,sfha úoHd;aul me;a; ffjoHjrhd úiska myod §u l< hq;= fjkjd' ore m%iQ;shl§ orefjl=f.a ysila fhdaks ud¾.h yryd t<shg tkafka kï" ,sx.sl tlaùfï§ isÿjk l%shdj,sh ms<sn| ìhla we;slr.; hq;= fkdjk njo wehg myod Èhhq;= fjkjd'

m<uq fhdaks ixi¾.h fõokdldÍ hehs is;k ldka;djkag jeðksiauia frda.h je<£fï m%jK;djh b;du jeähs' fujeks ñ;Hd úYajdihka ldka;djkaf.a ukig jeä jYfhka we;=¿ jkafka mdi,a hk jhfia§hs' jeðksiauia frda.fhka fm¿Kq fndfyda ldka;djkag fuu jerÈ f;dr;=re ,nd § ;snqfKa ;u mdi,a ld,fha mka;sfha fhfy<shka njo mejish hq;=hs'




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